I'm still not real clear on the current configuration, but here's is an historical perspective:
You started out with a single 1 TB partition. Then you added a 2nd 60 GB partition. That was the beginning of your issue, becuase the only way that you would have been able to enlage that 2nd partition would have been to erase and delete it, so that 1st partition recovered the space, then you would have to create a new larger than 60 GB partition. In other words, there was no way that the 2nd partiton could have been enlarged short of removing it and adding it back as a larger partition.
Now, where do you go from here?
1. You should have an external drive, preferably one at least 1 GB in size.
2. Decide whether you're still going to use the original 1st partition with Snow Leopard, yes or no?
3. Which OS X version do you intend to use as your main version?
4. In your final vision of your internal drive, how many partitions do you want?