Q: i have forgotten my passcode and got my iphone disabled after multiple attempts. its showing connect to itunes but i am unable to connect to itunes too. how can i unlock my phone without losing any data ? please help

Simply put - you cannot

IF you have a computer with iTunes on which you done a prior backup - the phone will be recognized and iTunes will offer todo a backup before it erases your device - other than that - unless you know the passcode the content cannot be saved

Hi

Make sure your PC is running the latest itunes 12.3.2

Turn iphone off connect lead to USB on your PC

Press & hold power button down on iPhone DONT let go connect lead to iPhone keep power button pressed

Down until PC sees iphone then wait for restore .

You may need to do this more than once before it works.

Cheers

Brian

Hi

Use same apple ID to get your apps /data back .

Cheers

Brian

https://support.apple.com/HT204306

You will lose all data on the phone.