i am trying to download iOS 9.3 but says i am not connected to wifi even though i am

Apple pulled some versions of it to patch an issue.

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Many users have encountered problems updating their devices, activating them or signing it to their account after iOS 9.3 update. Apple is aware of the problem and is working on a fix.

Take a look at these articles to get additional information on the issue or fit it:

If you can't activate your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch after installing iOS 9.3 - Apple Support

If you can’t activate your iPad 2 (GSM model) after you update to iOS 9.3If you can’t activate your iPad 2 (GSM model) after you update to iOS 9.3

Apple halts iOS 9.3 updates for older iDevices due to growing Activation Server Lock issues