System Freezes on connecting External Display
I just bought a MacBook Pro 13" mid 2012 version since I'm starting to travel a lot. I do a lot of coding on my main PC. I didn't mind having a smaller screen and non retina since i was going to hook it up to my 27" HD monitor for the majority of my work. Here's the problem...
One of two things happen when I try to hook it up via the Apple Thunderbolt to VGA connector. Either
1. The external display pops on but at the MBP 2012 native resolution (1200 x 800) and I can't change it at all
or
2. The entire system grays out and locks up and the second monitor shuts itself off saying there is no input. Then I have to hold down the power button to completely shut it down.
Nothing is wrong with the display or the adapter as I've tested them both on another laptop my wife has and my main development desktop (both PC). I'm assuming something is wrong with the MacBook or the underlying software. I'm running El Capitan and the MBP is maxed out in RAM and has a 500 GB SSD. I tried a bunch of things I saw online already but none of them worked. Is there anything I can do to get the 2nd display to work at its 1920 x 1080 resolution?
MacBook Pro (13-inch Mid 2012), OS X El Capitan (10.11.4)