Select the item then hold down the Command and Option keys while dragging the icon from its location to the Desktop, then release the keys. Alternatively, select the item and CTRL- or RIGHT-click and select Make Alias from the context menu. This method creates the alias in the same directory as the real file. You can then drag it wherever you want it or Copy and Paste it. Afterwards you can delete the alias from the original folder.
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