Why leap to defend or excuse Apple when it is apparent that there are users who find a particular practice undesirable?
We aren't requesting to have a feature or policy eliminated: if you value it, enjoy. We just want the option to opt out of something that is experienced as unnecessary, repetitive and intrusive.
Regarding "soft sell": no, incorrect. Every time the notification/email appears, it does advise purchasing more storage, with a direct link to do so immediately. Any discussion of storage management comes after that sales pitch.
Case in point: the latest email starts as follows, in bold title text:
Your iCloud storage is almost full. You have 481.1 MB remaining of 5 GB total storage.
Upgrade to 50 GB for $1.49 per month
That does not equate to "do not even reference a purchase"...
Thanks for the feedback link, Apple should know that many users are very unhappy with these constant notifications.