I'm not aware of any means to control the fan of a PPC mini, since unlike the Intel version, it's not controlled by a system management component.
I would also say that even if there were a way to control the fan and make it run slower or trigger later, I would advise strongly against doing so, simply because the fan is designed to cut in at a point where the mini needs the extra cooling. Delaying it's action or reducing it's speed would risk the system overheating.
I think it's more sensible to look for whatever reason the fan is cutting in so frequently, because it certainly should not, as a matter of normality, ramp up unless there is significant load on the system. Flash can cause that in itself, but your '..getting tired of the fan spinning up for every little thing....' suggests it's more of an issue than just Flash or other such items.
I would suggest you download and install a simple monitoring utility such as MenuMeters (from www.versiontracker.com) and enable all the metering options. This puts a series of meters in the menu that allow you to see what the CPU load is, what disk read and write activity exists, how busy the system is paging, what memory is being used and what network traffic there is - all without causing notable CPU load itself. When the fan spins up, if the CPU load isn't running fairly high and/or the system being kept pretty busy with paging or suffering heavy memory usage, then it would suggest there's an issue with the mini's hardware.
If that is the case, a PMU reset may well help, but other than that, check the obvious such as airflow around the system, and that the vents are clear, both around the base and the outflow on the back.
To reset the PMU if you need to:
- Unplug all cables from the computer, including the power cord.
- Wait 10 seconds.
- Plug in the power cord while simultaneously pressing and holding the power button on the back of the computer.
- Let go of the power button.
- Press the power button once more to start up your Mac mini.