Locked out of iPad Can't connnect to itunes/wifi

So, i have the original ipad mini, and have forgotten the password.

I have tried it to many times so instead of saying disabled, it says connect to itunes.

The ipad wont connect to wifi, so i cant reset the ipad from there, and when i try to connect to itunes, it wont show up.

Im pretty sure i need to click trust this device on my ipad, but i cant cause it is locked.

Any solutions???