it is tellig me my passcode on both my iphone and Ipad

You're entering the wrong password, if you know for sure the pass you entered is the password you set for the devices, contact apple: 1-800-692-775. Since you have an iPad and an iPhone, try the password for the other device on the other. iPhone password on the iPad, and the other way around.

Passcode or device disabled after entering wrong passcode

IF you have a backup then download it, if you don't then there's nothing you can do but to restore it