Q: how do I find out what my verification identity answers are?

how do I find out what my verification identity answers are?

You cannot - otherwise they would not be secure. You need to remember the answers to your security questions by heart, or to write them down and keep them in  a safe place, if you cannot trust yourself to remember the answers.

If you do no longer know the answers to your security questions, you can reset them. You will need a working rescue email address for this. See this help page: https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201485

If you need help resetting your security questions, contact Apple Support.

Use this link to find the support address for your country:  Contact Apple for help with Apple ID account security - Apple Support

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204169

If you mean answers to your security questions...

If you forgot the answers to your Apple ID security questions - Apple Support