apple id has locked me from my phone

Pay particular to what's outlined here -- If your Apple ID is locked - Apple Support, and if nothing works, be sure to use the link within that article to reach out to Apple Support for further help.

If you remember your 3 security answer that you set on the apple-ID, you can try to reset your password on https://iforgot.apple.com/password/verify/appleid

I hope this helps

There is a contact link.

Apple ID Support

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