how to fixed disabled iPhone 6s plus 64gb

Is it asking for your email address?

Or is it asking to be plugged into iTunes?

Or is it saying try again in X minutes?

If you forgot the passcode for your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch, or your device is disabled - Apple Support

how do i fis this

i KNOW PASSCODE BUT PRIOR TO HAVING SCREEN FIXED ENTERED PASSCODE WRONG TOO MANY TIMES BC THE 1 DID NOT TYPE SUCCESSFULLY SO NOW I HAVE "iphone is disabled connect to itunes" ive tried the instructions to no avail. its been owned by only me im willing to hard reset but holding down power button and home button instructions have been futile please help