I note your use of "lift" as a noun and not a verb suggesting your British origin....
Australian.. but I am old enough to belong to the British Empire.
I get VDSL from the local phone provider and this is my only option at this location.
I guessed right.
If the EM blast comes from the motor, what difference does the proximity of the electrical wires to the signal wires have?
EM is transmitted over electrical cables and particularly switch gear. The motor itself may produce nothing at all. It depends on the motor design they used. I would not be over worried about the actual source but the very fact that the problem occurs and is very difficult to fix.
The problem is due to VDSL is transmitted over balanced pair cabling of low grade.. ie phone wires. If this was shielded cat 5 you would have a lot less problems.
Perhaps a thick layer of lead around the motor might be the solution...
Plate steel is far more effective.. but lots of it.
But getting the building management to replace the low grade phone wiring with high grade shielded ethernet.. and if at all possible move the modem to the basement wiring rack.. or just somewhere else in the building. If you are adjacent to the lift (elevator) controls then your going to find it very hard to block.
There is a very simple tester.. a cheap AM transistor radio.. tuned to almost anywhere in the broadcast band.. off station.. and listen to the static. If the static comes in bursts.. every time the lift goes.. then your vdsl will basically slow or stop working.
A good router will also include a spectrum bit loading graph or at least the values.
I had a quick search and found this.
http://forum.kitz.co.uk/index.php?topic=12385.0
http://www.abload.de/img/bitloading-2013-03-04ilaba.png
To find out how you are affected by the Elevator noise.. the bit-loading graphs need to be saved in real time.. and you should also then be able to pick the main freq of the noise and harmonics. Tones along the bottom of the graph are standard bin numbers.. each tone covering 4khz.. so the actual frequency of VDSL2 goes up to 30mhz.
Here is an excellent set of power point slides showing more technical details of vdsl and the impact of impulse noise.
CSIRO is our science department of govn.
http://www.atnf.csiro.au/people/atzioumi/jdsu/xDSL%20Overview%20Oct%2008.ppt
The theory for this has been around for ages but the actual usage is mostly located in UK where they went to Fibre to the Node system instead of fibre all the way to the premises (FTTP) which is what US companies like google are doing.. We are also stupidly doing FTTN here in Australia.. but it is also popular in big buildings where it is called fibre to the basement. FTTB. It means they can run a single fibre connection into the building and share it over the old phone infrastructure.
It is highly susceptible to noise. Which means you probably need to tailor your listening to downloading the music to a local iTunes or music server and distribute it locally.. the RF noise will not affect ethernet or wifi which are microwave. Don't stream from online source as your internet connection will come and go with every warm body going up and down the elevator.