Hi,
Important: Do you have the Retina or Non-Retina model?
First, the Crucial listed here does not say it's Mac compatible. It needs to be guaranteed 100% Mac compatible (very important). https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B007B5S52C/ref=ox_sc_act_title_5?ie=UTF8&psc=1 &smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER
Second, the Crucial listed here does not specify Retina or non-Retina, so I'd stay away from it.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B008LTBJFW/ref=ox_sc_act_title_4?ie=UTF8&psc=1 &smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER
Third, the OWC RAM says it's NOT for Retina models (in red letters) and there was a retina and non-retina model made with your specs, so you need to clarify. If it's a Retina model, that rules out the OWC. (surprised they don't have RAM for the Retina model) https://eshop.macsales.com/item/Other%20World%20Computing/1600DDR3S16P/
Fourth, you can kick out the Kingston; it's not guaranteed Mac compatible (very important). I've dealt with people here before who have had issues with it.
Fifth, this is guaranteed to be the correct RAM for the NON-RETINA model, directly from Crucial. Yes, it's a little bit more expensive than Amazon, but you're dealing directly with the manufacturer who will stand behind their memory 100%. Plus, when you think about the $19 difference, spread out over the length of time you're going to continue using your MBP, it amounts to nothing, especially if you have to start troubleshooting weird issues and start wondering if it's the RAM or not (I see it often enough here). Do it right the first time and have the peace of mind that brings with it.
http://www.crucial.com/usa/en/macbook-pro-%2813-inch-and-15-inch%2C-mid-2012%29/ CT3373650#productDetails
Note: Very strange, but Crucial does not even carry the Retina model RAM. http://www.crucial.com/usa/en/compatible-upgrade-for/Apple/macbook-pro-%28retina %2C-15-inch%2C-mid-2012%29
So it boils down to, if you have the non-Retina model, either the OWC or Crucial RAM will work great. Flip a coin. If you have the Retina model, we have to start from scratch.
Finally, don't install both the RAM and SSD at the same time. Just do one, and then if there's an issue, you'll know exactly why/where it came from.