how to delete mobileme totally
I have never used mobileme. Not for any app ever. I do not synch ical or itunes or ianything. And I do not use iCloud, not at all. Suddenly now mobileme has an icon on the toolbar, asks me to resolve conflicts, tells me my u/n and password are wrong (but I never used any) so I can't login or do anything with it, and it's causing a process called 'mingler' which I have also never seen before in 9 years on this computer, and together they are hogging the whole CPU. I can wait 10 mins for a web page to load or a text file to open. No, I haven't updated my software for quite a while because I can't. I have not installed or changed anything. But I really, really want to KILL this mobileme thing out of my life completely and totally. How to do when I can't login to it to change preferences or whatever? I'd appreciate any help....
iMac, Mac OS X (10.6.8)