Go step by step and test.
Adobe Flash Player
1. System Preferences > Flash Player > Advanced > Delete All
Press the "Delete All" button.
Install Adobe Flash Player.
http://get.adobe.com/flashplayer/
Follow the prompts. Click Safari in the menu bar and then Quit Safari .
Restart the computer. Relaunch Safari.
2. Allow Plug-ins
Safari > Preferences > Security
Internet Plug-ins > "Allow plug-ins"
Enable it.
Click " Plug-in Settings" button for more options.
Enable “Adobe Flash Player:
Select “On” for “Currently open website” and When visiting other websites”.
Click “Done”.
3. Delete cookies.
Safari > Preferences > Privacy > Cookies and other website data:
Click the “Manage Website Data” button. It may take a while for the data to show up.
Remove YouTube related cookies.
4. Safari > Preferences > Extensions
Select and uninstall “ClickToFlash and “ClickToPlug-in” extensions, if installed.