Apple will be dropping support for 32bit at some point soon, sure (possible with iOS 11?). But developers will still be free to choose to maintain older versions of their software for older devices, as they wish to. Apple does not "instist" that they only code their apps in 64bit. They just won't be supporting it in further XCode releases as iOS won't support it. For those older, 32bit hardware limited devices, it will be up to developers to decide if they keep legacy support going for their apps, or not.
At some point, iOS gets dropped for all iOS devices, regardless. Your 4th generation iPad was discontinued in 2014, so at some point in the future, iOS will have moved on such that it no longer will support your hardware. That is a different issue though. When iOS itself no longer supports 32bit code, the iPhone 5 and 5c and older, as well as iPads (not Air, Air2 or Pro or the new iPad) and any devices with strictly 32bit processors, will stop getting iOS updates.