Hello Mark,
Welcome to the Discussions!
I don't know exactly how you could do what you ask. However, this problem has been around for a long time: it's a regular one in Discussions, and it seems that the behaviour is fixed.
However, behaviour of this kind, which concerns the Finder among other things, can often be changed by using Applescript. I don't know if there's one for this particular function. However, you could trawl through the
Applescript forums, or even post a question there. Maybe someone will write one for you. There are loads of willing minds and hands out there.
Good luck,
Martin
P.S. Strictly speaking, this topic is "off-thread". You should have started a new topic. That would ensure maximum attention from contributors. The only reason I was able to answer it was that my subscription to the thread was still open, so I got an alert e-mail when you posted.
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