"Preparing to copy" for three full days — when to give up?
I am trying to move my data from a 4TB Time Machine disk to a new 6TB disk, because I have about a decade of files backed up and the 4TB disk is almost full. (Getting constant messages about TM deleting old backups.)
It is now Friday morning and I started the process on Tuesday afternoon, following the instructions at Time Machine: How to transfer backups from a current backup drive to a new backup drive - Apple Support— formatting the target disk properly and using the finder to copy the TM folder. So it's been about 60 hours, but the Finder still shows "Preparing to copy to <diskname>" and "Preparing to copy <at the moment, 19 million!> items". The number of files continues to increment, but preposterously slowly, updating every 5 minutes or so.
If the message is accurate, this means that the Finder is still figuring out where each file should go (the target disk is brand new, and empty)
At what point should I decide that something has gone wrong, give up, and start again? I am also living in fear that the system freezes, or I have a power failure, and I have to start the whole thing from scratch again. Thanks for any advice.
(Please don't tell me to just start a fresh TM disk rather than copying the old one, though of course that would save time and make my question irrelevant. That's not what I want to do here. Thanks.)
MacBook Pro, macOS Sierra (10.12.4), null