In the end, I don't think it really matters which store you buy your RAM from these days. As long as you can get the correct RAM you need for your Mac model, at the right price you are willing to spend, you can get it shipped in the manner that works best for you, and the store has a decent policy for returning any RAM that is defective.
I have bought RAM from 18004memory.com for several years and haven't had any problems. The RAM I bought last Thursday for $270, arrived on Monday and it works fine. I put the new 2x1G memory in Riser A's 1&2 slots and moved Apple's 2x512Mb memory into Riser B's 1&2 slots.
Since using my Mac Pro for a few days before the RAM arrived, I can say there is a noticeable difference in performance. My eyeTV scans digital and analog channels faster, application launches and Finder windows are faster. iTunes is wicked fast getting me into the iTMS and cacheing my previews. Scrolling is much too fast so I generally prefer to page up/down. (BTW, I don't like the Apple mouse. I find it too strenuous to use. And I was constantly switching applications with the side buttons when I didn't want to. I prefer trackballs, but the Apple Mouse is the smoothest scrolling mouse I've ever used. I especially like the horiz. and vert. scrolling.)
But the most surprising speed increase has been with internet downloads. I have DSL and it's much faster with my Mac Pro than my PowerBook. But adding the new memory made it even faster. I haven't had any crashes or kernel panics before or after the new RAM, but now I'm not hesitant to open several applications at once. Since I'm always multi-tasking, the biggest problem for me is multiple applications with multiple windows. I hope that still holds true when I get MS Office.
Methinks that I may want to try to get 2x2G next time. So I'll probably wait until May to order, unless the RAM continues to drop in price. Maybe by then I'll have the time and energy to buy a new game also. The Sims2 seems to enjoy the new memory, though I usually start falling asleep too early to really test my new Mac Pro during the week. (All those weeks of reading these forums and hanging out at the online Apple Store til the wee hours of the morning while drooling over the Mac Pro I wanted finally caught up with me!)