i recieved a spam email from applecare about my apple id

If by 'help me' you mean an Apple email address to forward it : reportphishing@apple.com

Phishing and similar emails : Phishing & Other Suspicious Emails

Genuine iTunes emails : Identifying legitimate emails from the iTunes Store - Apple Support

It is a scam message.

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