Hi JD,
Numbers 3 (and probably 4) does not provide an easy way of searching for cells dependent on any specific cell.
If you have a copy of Numbers 2.3 (Numbers '09) on your machine, you may be able to Export your Numbers 3 or Numbers 4 document to a Numbers 09 format file, open that file in Numbers '09, then choose Show Formula List from the View menu.

As can be seen in the image, the Formula List shows a list of all formulas in the document, and the current result for each of them. But it also shows a Find and Replace button, which when clicked opens the Find dialogue with the search limited (as shown in the pop-up menu) to look in Formulas Only.
Entering a cell address (eg. "B2", or in multi table documents, "Tablename::B2") returns a count of the number of times that cell is used in formulas and opens the Formula Editor at the first occurrence (cell C2 in the example). Clicking Next will move the search to the next occurrence.
Te export to Numbers 09 isn't a perfect solution. More current versions of Numbers support several functions not supported in the '09 version, and these will not survive the export. Unsupported functions and formulas using these functions will be replaced in the exported file by the most recent results of those formulas. With the formula gone, of course, searching for cells referenced by those formulas is not possible.
If you do not have access to Numbers '09, here are some tests you can do within Numbers 3 or 4. Not elegant, and do follow the caution.
CAUTION:
Start by making a COPY of the document. Use this COPY for the tests below. These tests involve changing values in the spreadsheet and observing changes—particularly error messages.
Select the cell you want to test. Press Command-X to cut the contents out of the cell. Note any error triangles that appear—those cells contain either formulas that reference the target cell or formulas that reference one or more cells whose value depends on the target cell.
Some formulas are written to handle an empty cell without throwing an error. To test these, try entering a value of a different type than what was initially displayed in the target cell. Again, cells containing formulas dependent on the target cell either directly or through another cell may show error triangles.
These are not definitive tests, as some formulas expecting a number in the target cell may contain function that simply interprets a text value as numerically zero. Some changes may be easily handled by formulas dependent on the target cell, which will successfully calculate and display a new result. Spotting the changes will show you what cells depend on the target cell.
A non-destructive search:
Selecting a cell containing a formula will highlight all cells referenced by that formula. You may be able to select a cell at the top of a column, then press and hold the down arrow to quickly scan all cells in that column. As your selection passes each cell containing a formula, all referenced cells will flash a highlight colour. (Not practical with large tables, as scanning down the column will also scroll the view.)
Regards,
Barry
PS: You might also use the Provide Numbers Feedback item in the Numbers menu in Numbers to make a request that Apple re-introduce this useful search feature.
B