iSync Phone Plugins 3 is what you need: Your phone is supported!
http://www.novamedia.de/sync/
Now you can Sync the Address Book and iCal!
This plug-in will make Apple's iSync to working with your Nokia!
http://www.apple.com/macosx/features/isync/
Supported mobile phones:
BenQ Siemens: CX75, C81, EL71, M75, S6V, S65, S75, SL7F, SL75, SP65, SK65, SK6R, S66, S68
Motorola: C390, A1000
Nokia: 3250, 5200, 5300, 5500, 6102i, 6103, 6126, 6131, 6133, 6151, 6233, 6234, 6288, 6810, 7280, 7710, 8800, 9300, 9500, E50, E60, E61, E62, E70, N71, N73, N80, N90, N91, N93
Sony Ericsson: K510i, K610, K790i, K800i, W300i, W700i, W710i, W850i, Z550i, Z610i, Z710i
Sending SMS from mac the Mac is just not possible at this moment!
Also syncing iPhoto is just not possible at this moment with your phone!
You can browse you phone with the OSX bluetooth Utility. See the bvrowse device option.
Just try if you can connect the phone with USB for charging and storage drive mode. If these features don't work then then they are also NOT going to work for Now. Maybe in a later release off OSX and iSync.
Hopefully this is helpfull or solved your problem. Consider rewarding some points!
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