Good afternoon thecableguy,
Welcome to the Apple Support Communities!If you are having issues with iCloud Music Library not updating what you have on your laptop to your iPhone SE, take a look at the resources below. I've highlighted some key information here for you. Try updating your iCloud Music Library from the File menu in the iTunes application as a first troubleshooting step. Click on the links for complete details.
About iCloud Music Library icons and status
Turn on the iCloud Download and iCloud Status columns to see icons and statuses using these steps:
- Open iTunes.
- If you're not on the My Music tab, select Music from the upper-left corner of iTunes, then click My Music.
- In the left sidebar, click Songs.
- In the main iTunes window, right-click or Control-click in the top row and make sure that there's a checkmark next to iCloud Download and iCloud Status. If there isn't, select iCloud Download or iCloud Status to turn the columns on.
- The iCloud Download and iCloud Status columns appear.
Other iCloud icons
The icons below appear in the upper-right corner of iTunes, under the Search field, instead of in the iCloud Download column.
Connecting
This icon appears when you first turn on iCloud Music Library or when you Update iTunes Library (File > Library > Update iTunes Library). It means that iTunes is connecting or sending updates to iCloud Music Library.
Get help with iCloud Music Library
If you have content downloaded to your device for offline listening, it deletes from your device when you turn off iCloud Music Library. After you turn iCloud Music Library back on, you can redownload the content.
Take care.