apple tv is saying my ID has been locked. however it hasnt?

It's certainly possible that your Apple ID has been locked. See this support article for information on that issue: If your Apple ID is locked or disabled - Apple Support

I hope this fixes your issue! 🙂

You can also try iTunes Support. Scroll to the bottom of the page in the 2nd link.

iTunes Support

iTunes Support – world wide

Hmmm... Well, in that case, try to contact Apple Support: Get started They can probably answer your question. Have you tried logging in on iCloud.com to see if your account is really locked?