Message replies go to wrong device
I frequently use Messages to send a message from my iPhone to my partner's iMac. For the past few weeks, whenever he replies, the message goes to my Mac and I don't receive it at all on my phone. If it's important (and he remembers), he starts a new message thread using my mobile phone number, and that works as expected and goes to my phone. I have tried starting a brand-new message rather than replying to an existing message thread, but that makes no difference.
Both Macs are on Sierra, 10.12.6 . My iPhone is on the latest iOS, 11.2.6.
I am attaching 2 screenshots: the preferences for Messages on my Mac to show that I only use my manager email for messages; and the preferences on my iPhone to show that new conversations come from my mobile phone number.
Any ideas on why this might be happening or what I can do about it?
Thanks in advance.
Mac Mini Server (Late 2012), macOS Sierra (10.12.6)