Hi my iPhone 5s says “iPhone is disabled connect to iTunes” I connect to computer iTunes but it doesn’t want to connect to iTunes what do I need to do

"but it doesn’t want to connect to iTunes"

Make sure iTunes is up to date on your computer ...

iTunes requires a Mac running OS X version 10.10.5 or later.

Or a PC, iTunes requires Windows 7 or later.

Update to the latest version of iTunes - Apple Support

Then follow the instructions in this support article > If you forgot the passcode for your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch, or your device is disabled - Apple Support