I can’t open my iPad, it’s saying iPad disabled ..connect to iTunes ?

See:

If you forgot the passcode for your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch, or your device is disabled - Apple Support

or

If you see the Connect to iTunes screen on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support

i can't open my iPad it tells me to connect to my iTunes

My iPad is disabled. It says I need to do something with iTunes first.

traceyfromarcade wrote:

My iPad is disabled. It says I need to do something with iTunes first.

Follow the instructions in the links previous posted above.