I’d is locked and the bday I put in years ago don’t Mach my actual birthday
I don’t know the right bday I put in so it does not work I And I don’t know what the recovery email is it the the email I use
If you falsified the information when you created the ID, you're pretty much hosed.
If the device is activation locked, and you have the original receipt from when you bought the phone, Apple can remove the activation lock. However, without the ability to prove ownership of the Apple ID, you will not be able to regain access to that account.