I tried to pay for tinder and i couldnt do it as well in other apps so i dont know what to do upon that

Have you done as your image is instructing you to do and contacted iTunes Support ? If not you should do so (these are user forums, not iTunes Support) :

- go to http://www.apple.com/support/itunes/ww

- click on your country's flag (the country where you are, and which is therefore the country on your account)

- click on Contact Support towards the top right

- click on Get Help under 'Talk To Us'