Solution found.
All:
Apple support was not able to help with fixing this problem. However, while chatting with a tech by the handle “Mikey” last night I found a solution.
Updating over WiFi only changes the sections of the OS code on your phone that has been changed In the new version.
Updating over a wire with iTunes REPLACES the OS entirely.
So if your phone is jacked up, here is what you do:
1) Update iTunes on your desktop/laptop. You need the latest version.
2) Connect your iPhone to your desktop/laptop.
3) Backup your phone to your laptop.
4) Leaving the wire connected, hard reboot the phone:
- iPhone SE, hold down “home” and “power” for 45 seconds or longer.
- Other models do the vol up, vol down, power, hold for 45 seconds.
5) Phone will reboot. KEEP HOLDING!
6) iTunes will say “there is a problem with the iPhone...”
7) Click “update”
8) iTunes will download an update and will install when download complete... mine was about 2.8 Mb.
9) Your desktop/laptop will decompress the file and then start pushing it to the phone.
- “iTunes is preparing to update the software on the phone”
10) Wait a bit
11) “iTunes is updating the software on the phone”
12) you will see the “Apple“ screen in your phone with a progress bar showing how much the installation has progressed.
13) “Verifying the updated iPhone”
14) Phone reboots
15) When your phone wakes up, you will have to unlock your phone for the push to continue.
16) Syncing iPhone
Now your phone should work.