Maybe everyone experiencing the problem can share a little bit more about their setup, do you only share APFS volumes or maybe a mix of APFS and HFS+ ("Mac OS Extended")?
In my case the server is an iMac with an internal FusionDrive that got updated to APFS of course. Most of the time there are 3 external hard drives connected that run on HFS+. From the client computers I usually access the internal FusionDrive of the iMac and one of the external HFS+ drives, which I usually both mount on the client computer after startup.
Only very occasionally I access the two other external HFS+ drives, so I only mount them on the client computers when I need to access them.
So, yesterday I found a little note that I made to myself a while back, reminding me to always switch on afp sharing after a macOS update. Because a bunch of times times after I installed an update I had trouble with file sharing not working anymore and after all it turned out that afp automatically got unchecked in the system preferences with the update and only smb was active, so I had to switch it back on and everything was fine.
Now with my internal fusion drive being upgraded to APFS it can’t be shared via afp of course and as mentioned somewhere in this thread before, afp should be turned off to make sure connections will be made through smb.
So when the file sharing problems started for me after installing the 10.14.5 update and I searched the internet about it and saw this mentioned I switched afp off and always made sure it’s off. On every Mojave version prior to 10.14.5 I’m quite sure I always had afp switched on.
Yesterday I did some research again because I was very frustrated with the file sharing connections lasting only a few minutes and freezing/crashing my Finder on both the server and the client. I found an article on a german website mentioning this problem:
https://macandegg.de/2019/06/loesung-macos-10-14-mojave-smb-funktioniert-nicht-finder-stuerzt-ab/
(article in german)
What it essentially says is that their server is running 10.14.5 and that if they only switch on smb for file sharing it results in regular Finder crashes and having to force restart of the Mac.
So they called Apple support and only got the information that the problem persists since 10.13.6.
Now, the solution the article states is to simply use afp instead of smb, no word on APFS volumes that don’t support afp. They do however mention that there are devices that only support smb (i.e. "the documents app on the iPhone") and that the solution is to establish afp connections with other Macs first and then after that switch on smb on the server and it will magically work for other devices.
What I did then was switching on afp on my 10.14.5 server, went to my client and hit ⌘+K in the Finder. In the window that opens I established an afp connection to the server, typing afp:// followed by the server’s IP, hit Enter and it did show a list of all HFS+ drives connected to the server (APFS volume was not showing). I mounted the drive I usually work with and it mounted like a charm.
I then hit ⌘+K again to connect the internal FusionDrive via smb, typing smb:// followed by the server’s IP, chose the internal drive and it also mounted like a charm.
So far the connection seems stable. I tried opening folders and files every once in a while, waited a few minutes and tried again a few times on both volumes. It stayed connected over night and I could access both volumes the next morning. I unmounted and mounted it again using the same method, first the HFS+ volume via afp, then the APFS volume via smb which also worked.
It is of course much too early to tell if this is a solution, I’m still very sceptical, it might just disconnect in a few minutes – but anyway I tought I’d share it now in case there is some information in there that someone can use. And also as I wrote in the beginning it would be interesting to know if others have a similar setup with APFS and HFS+ volumes or if it’s just APFS you’re having problems with.
I am wondering if I had, because it was always switched on in my system before I installed the 10.14.5 update, the HFS+ volumes connected through afp all the time and the update led to changing it to connect via smb and the hassle began?