Thanks again for the help
I installed OmniDiskSweeper and sized the full HD. (SSD 500GB)
Largest part of the disk is occupied by files residing in my library and also are stored on iCloud, the largest part are all the pictures and movies from some holidays that i copied to my local NAS. Seems that all copied files are now physically stored on my SSD 500GB drive in 'Users>'me'>Library>...', in iCloud storage and on my NAS.

Completed a small "test" by deleting one of the maps in the library folder (using omnidisksweeper) and checked the content on iCloud. Unfortunately when i delete the map residing in the Library it also gets deleted in iCloud (double checked it via my iPad)
Seems to me that the automated optimisation of iCloud storage is not properly managing shared storage. (???)
I have 2TB of iCloud storage (just about 770GB actually used) but it seems that once a file 'passes' via my macbook to 'some destination' or files are viewed on the macbook a local version is stored. (in the hidden library)
It does not make sense to me (or better 'i don't understand' how things are managed)
At least the problem is identified, only need to find a way to 'unload' this (to my point of view) garbage on my SSD.
The sole reason for purchasing iCloud storage is to store excessive data and provide sufficient space on my SSD to use for daily operations. Now it seems i am running into the capacity limit of the macbook due to a bunch of crap stored i a hidden map. (as long as i have an internet connection i can get to my iCloud storage so there is no need to store it "double")