Apple watch interferes with iPhone

I do not get sound or vibration on the Phone when I have a Watch paired to it. But the Message, Email, Phone call, Reminder is displayed on the Phone.

I have tried 3 different Watches, Series 4 cellular models, with my iPhone XsMax and have not been able to fix the issue.

I have the Watch notifications all set to Silent, only Haptics, for those 4 functions. And it functions properly as set. The Phone is set on 3 different sounds and my custom vibration for all 4 of those functions. The Watch intercepts all calls, email, reminders, and messages and I do not get any sound or vibration from Phone. But they display on the screen as notifications are set to do.

I want all 4 functions to vibrate and sound on the Phone and also to only Haptic on the Watch. It will not function that way. I have unpaired the Watch and then the Phone functions as set. I have erased the Phone multiple times and reset from backup and new build both. No change. I have done same with Watch. No change.

Anyone else have similar experience? Or suggestions?