here is the link where i read this:
http://www.drumdojo.com/tech/mikingstudio.htm
"Second, many times the bass drum sounds better in the mix if you reverse its polarity. This is easy to do in computers and on higher end boards, but if you don't have one, you can make or buy an adapter cable that goes between the bass drum mic cable and your board. This only works for balanced XLR cables, though. To make one yourself, get a soldering iron (read and follow all the safety guidelines that come with the soldering iron) and reverse pins 2 and 3 on one end of a short XLR cable. "
this may be the same thing as phase relationships?