P-Trainer,
No, I provided a solution that will work while connected to EDGE, and that is cwmx.com.
Whether or not optonline chooses to relay is their choice and business decision to make. Many ISPs don't relay because servers that relay can potentially be exploited by spammers. If you want to use Optonline's outgoing server on EDGE, that would be a change for Optonline to make.
While you are connected to EDGE you can use cwmx.com as your outgoing mail server and send any email address you like. However, it only works on EDGE.
This article contains more information:
http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=305634
Hope this helps,
Nathan C.