If you're willing to use a program like CuteFTP, why not enable remote login on your Mac, and use WinSCP?
Alternatively, just use CuteFTP with FTP access enabled on your Mac.
Both those options are under "Sharing" in System Preferences, I think.
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If your problem is the other way around, and you're trying to access a windows machine, there's a free piece of software called slimftpd (
http://www.whitsoftdev.com/slimftpd/) that you could use to enable FTP access to your machine.
Use a strong password though, for all these options!
Message was edited by: Drarok