Uhm, this is actually think this a bit of a misinformed explanation.
There are people running SLI on Windows based PC's that DO NOT have Motherboards with nVidia Chipsets on them. They simply bridge the two cards together, install drivers and voila, they're running in SLI mode, one Intel and AMD based PCs. What you're referring to is a PROJECT that nVidia and some other company who got together and placed chips sets into the motherboard to improve SLI performance. There is also a project that they are doing that implies that they are going to MAKE their own CPUs [note that I don't think that this has caught on yet].
But, SLI is not specific to motherboards with only nVidia chipsets built into them. Nope. I've seen AMD and Intel based machines running nVidia cards in SLI mode. SLI is, so far, specific to Windows based PCs.
I think the reason why we're not seeing SLI on Mac OSX is because we don't really need it. Between all the "Core" technology built into OSX, Processor, RAM and Graphics cards, Apple can create serious performance without using SLI. The other thing to be aware of is, SLI is not something that will be around in two years. If it is, then maybe we'll start to see it be more ubiquitous. But it seems to me that with the way technology changes, SLI'ing two graphics cards will eventually be a thing of the past. For instance, what if I could create SLI performance on one card. What then would be the point of SLI?