Okay, so can you login with your own user name? If you can, we can disable the root later. Simply login to your computer using your own user name and password. Go the the Accounts setting, click the clock and when it asks for a name, put in there "root" and the password you've created. This should open the lock. Again select your name on the left side, check the tick box that says "Allow this user to administer this computer". After that logout and log back in. You should now be the admin.
To disable the root, simple open your applications, utilities and open directory utility. On the menu bar choose Edit and click on the Disable Root User.
Hope this helps