Highlight & Autoplay question

I have a 2 part question:

1.) I'm building a website to showcase my demo reel. The demo reel page features a QT window that plays the whole reel, with links below the window allowing individual titles to be played as well. I already have the individual titles highlighting when you select them, but is there a way to have the individual titles highlight in sync with the full demo reel as it is playing as a visual ID for which title is being seen?

2.) I seem to be having problems having both the full demo reel and the individual titles Autoplay when you select them. I have Autoplay selected in the Inspector, but it only shows up as a selection when I click on the QT screen. The Autoplay option is not available for the individual titles.

I'm using iWeb '08 v. 2.0.3

Thanks for any suggestions you might have.