Tom,
My experience is the exact same as your regarding temps, etc. on my replacement MBP. Sometimes there is an initial temp spike up to 100, but it is quickly handled. I did not notice this on my previous machine. Temps would get to around 90 tops, and if it did I surely was going to have a BSOD.
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I stated that I would post back after some gaming, and I feel comfortable saying that my replacement is running as it should. No black screens in OSX or Vista, playing games like CS, TF2, GW, along with COD4 and FO2 in OSX. ALL of these games were an issue before. I have logged roughly 10 hours or so either gaming or benching 3dmark06 so far. I just hope things stay this way, without any failure as the INQ or others are predicting.
If it helps, my new machine is a week 50 custom out of shanghai. I'll post the full details sometime soon.
So, my advice to those of you who have this issue is to return it and get a replacement.