I'm having the same issue. For a while I thought it was "gone", but now I realize it's just that I didn't shut down the computer for the past week. I've tried a million things: repair permissions, throw out the boot cache, reset PRAM, reset the SMC by shutting down, disconnecting power cords and all peripherals and display cables, and connecting again, swearing, invoking the gods, etc. The first time I reset the SMC the display came on so I thought that was it, but I've been having the problem again, more and more, and now that doesn't work. I have not noticed any patterns like others mention about having to disconnect the display power brick or disconnect the USB cable or anything like that (though I've certainly tried).
I don't think this has anything to do with display itself, however, because the display responds normally if I connect it to a laptop. As soon as I can I'm going to lug my computer over to a friend's house to test it on his display, just to rule that out. Then I guess I'm going to have to part with it somehow to have it fixed (aaaaauuuugh!!)
So, no new ideas here, but I figured I'd join those of us hoping for answers.