Not too big depending on the pixel dimensions of the file. 150 dpi is about as low a resolution I like to print at and that would require 1500 x 1950 image file. Most current cameras take larger photos than that. My Canon IS700 gives me 2816 x 2112. That would give an approximately 200 dpi 10 x 13 print. But again, your preferences might require a higher resolution. For comparison Apple uses 300 dpi for their books, prints, etc.
If you want to upload the actual original file you could put it in your public folder on the iDisk and let the visitors download from there. Just zip each photo and give it the same file name as what's in the slideshow (you wouldn't have to give downloading privileges, just a link top the public folder on your iDisk:
http://idisk.mac.com/your_MobileMe Account_Name-Public?view=web. Then the can download the full, uncompressed original file.
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