It seems like I'm/my MacBook suffering from the same problem like yours.
I called Apple Support, they just guided me trough the PRAM and VRAM reset, and wasn't able to get me further advice, i called then the Helpdesk from the distributor where i buy my mac, they had also no other advice as bring the Machine in which would mean it' will be away for one week at least.
Do you got any answers in your case? did u brought your machine in? Did they replaced anything?
The most annoying thing on all this is there is so much evidence being some issues with the nivida 9400 / 9600 chipset and weather applecare hotline(germany) or the distributer (switzerland) did mention there where known problems with the chips:(
BTW.
This is my third Apple now, and its really sad they use users as beta tester for their machines. First was about 7 years ago an G4 Motorola Processor, there where no issues at all and its working fine until that day. Second was late 2007 an Macbook 13inch white it has to go in service after 8 months because some pieces of the body where damaged and broke just from the opening and closing of the lid. secondly there was liquid display oil leaked into the display which caused faulty zones of the LCD. So they had to replace the display and the whole body. The display went to the same issue just two months after replacing.