ok, i thought i would post my issues as apple in the uk have been rubbish and i cannot contact them, and o2 are refusing to help saying its a software issue provided by apple.
i upgraded to 3.0 to start with it lost all my texts, email setup and contact, lukily i had backups of the contacts, i know my mail settings and i use o2 bluebook for texts so it backs up there.
before the update 3.0 worked fine, both at home and at work.
after the update neither work. (belkin router at home, and cisco router at work both encypted, but i have tried turning off the secuirty at home on the belkin and even tried a netgear router and i had the same issue)
i can connect to the network, then within seconds it has dropped the network, seconds later it is reconnected and then connected. and so on until it says that i cannot join. the WEP/WPA keys are correct, i have tried resetting the network settings, and even tried re installing 3.0 to no avail. bluetooth is turned off to.
the anoying thing is that i could connect and the net worked fine at a wifi hotspot in town (the cloud network, which is part of o2)
i cant think of anything else to try? and its really bugging me.