Bluescreen Problem with 3G / 3GS

Good Morning

My Sister got a iPhone 3G, i helped her installing it on my old Computer, i finished installing iTunes and when i connected there was a BSOD, so i restartet the machine, Systemfiles where missing, anyway i reinstalled the machine and we did it on her Laptop.

But now, i got my own iPhone 3GS, it works just fine on Vista 64bit.
With XP there is the same problem, some tech details

Intel Q6600
Windows XP SP3
4x1 GB DDR2 Ram
Geforce 8800GTX

Logitech G19
Logitech G9
Logitech quickcam fusion

iPhone 3GS 32GB - newest firmware 3.1.2
iTunes 9.1 - 32 bit Edition

Same problem, when i got photos made with the cam, there is a instant crash when connection, without any photos, its no problem

What i have tried:

disconnection all usb devices (expect usb keyboard (LogitechG19)) -did not work
updating Logitech Cam driver (because i read there was problems with that driver, dont know WHY this should be..) -did not work
deinstalling Logitech Quickcam software and driver -did not work
chaning my usb drivers from INTEL to Microsoft standart drivers -did not work
changing my usb drivers to the newest drivers -did not work
using another usb port -did not work
reinstalling itunes -did not work
just deinstalling apple moblie device manager, did work no crash, but i cant sync without that... so -did not work

i am really running out of nervers for this hole story, and those several bluescreens just cant be good for my Computer

since this problem its knonw since 2008, i hope there is a solution, or a fix from apple, this really cant be..

Hoping for a fast solution and greetings,
Ozzi

Message was edited by: ozzi789