Glad it's starting to sink in.
however, you still need to understand some basic stuff regarding digital (which is normal at first!).
Otherwise is it correct that whatever we do to a jpeg will change its size therefore if we need to edit for quality prints it would be best to use raw?
JPEG is a lossy format, which means it's already been compressed - some information has been discarded by your camera to make the file smaller. The more compressed a file is, the more info you lose. When you work inside Aperture all the adjustments you make (without going to plugins or an external editor) are instructions that are applied on the fly by the software, so you're not actually affecting pixels but the way you see them. Only when you export that file are those adjustments then applied. If you export as a JPEG, you're applying compression again so in essence you're getting a degraded file. This may not be apparent but it's there. If you should re-import that degraded file and re-export it again, eventually you'd get something pretty useless. That's why we have lossless formats: a TIFF or PSD will not contain compression, allowing you to manipulate the picture without losing data.
Compression is a pretty complex beast and while you can shrink a file down a lot, eventually you reach a limit where compression becomes useless. There's just so much data that can be taken out. That's why zipping a TIFF will make a much bigger difference with the original than zipping a JPEG.
Otherwise is it correct that whatever we do to a jpeg will change its size therefore if we need to edit for quality prints it would be best to use raw?
It's not and it is. It's NOT correct that you should use RAW for printing. You can't print from RAW. RAW is just sensor data that always needs to be converted in order to be used, whether in print or digital format. The big advantage is in editing because it allows much greater manipulation of the camera's data after the picture has been taken and without loss or degradation.
But it IS correct that manipulating a JPEG file will result in data loss if you repeatedly export and import as JPEG. When editing JPEG you should either stay in Aperture or export to TIFF or PSD before editing in another app. You can get spectacular prints from a JPEG file as long as you watch your workflow.
There's a lot more to be said about this subject and I'm not sure if I'm being as clear as I could be. But hopefully this is shedding some light for you on the subject...