Unlike you I am not new to Macs, and I have been hearing your stories since the equivalent of their Paleolithic era. They never change and they never will.
If Macs (hopefully) one day are more popular then Windows, the number of vulnerabilities will likely increase.
That will never happen. As macOS continues to resemble iOS, the number of new vulnerabilities can only diminish, and Macs will never be more popular than Windows anyway. Both platforms are going away as iOS and its imitators supplant the need for them.
My point being if you are not running antivirus on your Mac, you should.
Your recommendations are going to fall on deaf ears. macOS already incorporates everything it needs to protect itself from viruses and malware, and I prohibit any such non-Apple products on any of the Macs I own or control. That is the way I and everyone else within my employment or supervision have using Macs since the inception of OS X. Non-Apple "anti-virus" products prevent them from working. That's not surprising since there is no company, organization or individual in possession of Apple's proprietary operating systems or hardware knowledge.
I subjected all the popular products to my own extensive tests. Their effectiveness ranged from benign but useless to malicious, and differed only in their degree to which they would prevent a Mac and macOS from working the way Apple designed those products to work.
Do as you please though... because you're new to Macs. To keep yourself apprised of current developments consider subscribing to Apple's Security-announce list server.