Hi Lomberts,
Welcome to the Apple Music Communities, it has come to my attention that you have been experiencing issues with receiving your Apple Music for Families subscription and also issues with payments.
If you're having issues with family sharing
- Check the payment went through successfully
- Attempt to rejoin the family, the organizer can remove you from the family and add you back
- Make sure you're logged in to iCloud and everything is all good under family sharing settings
If you're having an issue with refunds
Contact Apple Support
- Go to Apple.com
- Click Support
- Select your device (If this appears)
- Click Subscriptions & Purchases
- Click the option that applies to you (In your case, it would most likely be Accidental Purchases)
- Select a way to talk to Apple Support
Hope this helps, tell me if you need anymore issues.