I think you have enough memory.
My Dad's 2008 iMac got strange glitches like finder not display all files in a folder. I wrote it off as my Dad doing strange things until I saw finder not displaying all files in a folder. I bought an external harddrive. Re-install macOS and all third party apps from scratch Problem want away for awhile but came back. Just strange glitches with the finder. I convinced the parents to buy a new iMac.
I'd run etrecheck. Etrecheck will analyze your machine and software and report back. Experienced users have found the reported information useful when diagnosing problems. Post results here so others can view. The proprietary stuff in the report gets filtered. You may want to start a new thread. Include a link to this thread.
Install and run
-- Download etrecheck. Goto the EtreCheck download page. The download link is at the bottom of the screen
-- Install etrecheck. Goto your download folder. Double click on EtreCheckPro.zip
-- drag the app to the application folder if you wish.
-- Double click on etrecheck to run. The first five runs are free.
How to report etrecheck data.
When the report is done, click on the export icon.

click on "Copy report" to copy to the clipboard

Get back in your web browser and access your discussion. Create a new reply. Click on the <> code icon. Paste you etrecheck output into the code block.

which results in...

Robert
PS. You may find Old Toad's write up helpful.
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